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Please, Sorry, Thanks

The Three Words That Change Everything

Mark Batterson

About Please, Sorry, Thanks

ECPA BESTSELLER • Strengthen your spiritual, mental, and emotional health and reach your most audacious goals with three simple but power-packed words—from the New York Times bestselling author of Win the Day.

“A practical framework to be the kind of thoughtful, helpful force for good you always wanted to be.”—Carey Nieuwhof, founder of the Art of Leadership Academy

The best predictor of success in life, in love, and in leadership is your proficiency at please, sorry, and thanks. Those three words are the foundation of all healthy relationships and successful careers. Those three words are the only ceiling on achieving your dreams. Those three words will determine how happy you are.

With his trademark blend of personal stories, scientific and historical references, and biblical insight, Pastor Mark Batterson shows how you can change your world with your words:

• A timely please can help you unlock the rule of reciprocity for greater results, discover the power of “we is greater than me,” and honor others above yourself.
• A sincere sorry can lead you to mend broken relationships, strengthen connections through being radically vulnerable, and better understand the degrees of forgiveness.
• A heartfelt thanks paves the way toward a resilient mindset of gratitude and an expectancy to see God move on your behalf.

Whether you’re launching out into a new phase of life or navigating long-established complexities, it's time to harness the power of those three transformative words and let them propel you wherever God leads you to go.

Praise

“A balm for the soul. This book will give you a practical framework to be the kind of thoughtful, helpful force for good you always wanted to be.”—Carey Nieuwhof, founder of the Art of Leadership Academy
 
“Powerful, moving, and needed! With just three little words, Mark Batterson will change your perspective on just about everything from your faith to your relationships to the way you speak to yourself.”—Dr. Anita Phillips, trauma therapist and author of The Garden Within

About Mark Batterson

Mark Batterson is the lead pastor of National Community Church in Washington, DC. One church in seven locations, NCC owns and operates Ebenezers Coffeehouse, The Miracle Theatre, and the DC Dream Center. NCC is currently developing a city block into The Capital Turnaround. This 100,000-square-foot space will include an event venue, child development center, mixed-use marketplace, and co-working space. Mark holds a Doctor of Ministry degree from Regent University and is the New York Times best-selling author of seventeen books, including The Circle MakerIn a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy DayWild Goose Chase, Play the Man, Whisper, and, most recently, Double Blessing. Mark and his wife, Lora, live on Capitol Hill with their three children: Parker, Summer, and Josiah.

Product Details

192 pages | Published by Multnomah

On Sale Date: Apr 4, 2023

Trim Size: 5-3/16 x 8

Carton Quantity: 12

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In the realm of medicine, a magic bullet is the antidote to seemingly unsolvable problems. New York Times bestselling author and pastor Mark Batterson believes three forgotten words hold similar power. His new book—Please, Sorry, Thanks—shows how to change your life by changing your words.

Press Release

New York Times Bestselling Author and Influential Pastor Mark Batterson Equips Readers to Revolutionize their Relationships and Careers with Three Simple Words
 
In his new book, Please, Sorry, Thanks: The Three Words That Change Everything (Multnomah/Penguin Random House; on-sale 4/4/23), New York Times bestselling author and nationally respected pastor Mark Batterson says that the best predictor of success in life, in love, and in leadership is our proficiency in please, sorry, and thanks
 
With his trademark blend of personal stories, scientific and historical references, and biblical insight, Batterson emphasizes that these three words:
·      lay the foundation of all healthy relationships and successful careers
·      set the only ceiling on achieving a person’s dreams, and
·      determine the levels of happiness we can experience
Throughout this perspective-shifting book, Batterson shows readers how to change their world with their words, while exploring:
  • The Psychology of Please: A timely please can help you unlock the rule of reciprocity for greater results, discover the power of “we is greater than me,” and honor others above yourself.
  • The Science of Sorry: A sincere sorry can lead you to mend broken relationships, strengthen connections through being radically vulnerable, and better understand the degrees of forgiveness.
  • The Theology of Thanks: A heartfelt thanks paves the way toward a resilient mindset of gratitude and an expectancy to see God move on your behalf.
 
Batterson also explains the art of empathy, the language of lament, and how strengthening our emotional and contextual intelligence can pave the way to greater success in every aspect of our lives. Readers will also learn how to:
·       cultivate intimate relationships
·       make amends for mistakes 
·       find true happiness 
·       shift the atmosphere at home 
·       change the culture at work
·      win friends and influence people
 
Whether someone is launching out into a new phase of life or navigating long-established complexities, Batterson helps them harness the power of these three transformative words to propel them to a brighter destiny.
 
For more information, visit MarkBatterson and WaterBrookMultnomah.com.
 
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Mark is the New York Times bestselling author of 23 books, including Please, Sorry, Thanks: The Three Words That Change Everything (Multnomah; on-sale 4/4/23) and Win the Day, as well as several books for children, including The Best Worst Day Ever (Multnomah), written with his daughter, Summer. He’s the lead pastor of National Community Church in Washington, D.C. One church in multiple locations, NCC owns and operates Ebenezers Coffeehouse, the Miracle Theater and the DC Dream Center. NCC is currently developing a city block into The Capital Turnaround. Visit him at markbatterson.com and
Twitter.com/MarkBatterson
Facebook.com/MarkBatterson
Instagram.com/MarkBatterson  

Praise for Please Sorry Thanks
“A balm for the soul. This book will give you a practical framework to be the kind of thoughtful, helpful force for good you always wanted to be.
Carey Nieuwhof, founder of the Art of Leadership Academy

“Powerful, moving, and needed! With just three little words, Mark Batterson will change your perspective on just about everything from your faith to your relationships to the way you speak to yourself.”—Dr. Anita Phillips, trauma therapist and author of The Garden Within
 
Notable Quotes from Please, Sorry, Thanks by Mark Batterson
·      Nothing opens doors like PLEASE. Nothing mends fences like SORRY. Nothing builds bridges like THANKS.
 
·      Please is the way we level the playing field and find common ground. Please is the way we show respect, even to those we disagree with. Please is the way we bring some civility back to the public square. Please is one of the most important words we can ever say.
 
·      Nothing mends fences like sorry. Every apology begins with empathy….Without empathy, our apologies are empty. Saying sorry without feeling sorry sends mixed signals. Are you or aren’t you sorry? You have to own the apology!
 
·      Nothing builds bridges like thanks. The theology of thanks starts with the things we take for granted. It's cultivating profound gratitude for the things we overlook and under-appreciate.

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Brett Benson