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For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition

A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women

Shaunti Feldhahn & Jeff Feldhahn

About For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition

“Shaunti and Jeff have unearthed a treasure chest of insights—eye-opening and life-changing.”
—Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North Point Community Church

Finally, you can understand her!

If you’re like most men, you’ve burned up lots of energy trying to figure out what a woman wants, what makes her tick, how to make her happy. 

The good news: success is simpler than you ever thought.  In their groundbreaking classic, For Men Only, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn reveal the eye-opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love. For example:
• Why she can’t “just not think about” something that’s bothering her 
• How to get her real answers without games
• How your provider instinct can actually cause her heartache – and what to do about it
• Why listening to her feelings is so hard for a guy, and a fix-it plan that works
• Why her “I do” at the altar will always mean, “do you?” and the answer that rocks her world
 
Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy.

Praise

Praise for For Men Only
 “Once again Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have unearthed a treasure chest of insights that are not only eye-opening, but life-changing.”
—Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North Point, Alpharetta, GA, and bestselling author

“In our weekly couples’ study we read and discussed both For Women Only and For Men Only over the course of several months. They were fascinating and very helpful. The findings in For Men Only about how women think are so enlightening. My wife and I think these books should be required premarital reading!”
—Comedian Jeff Foxworthy  

“When we featured Shaunti’s books on Family Life Today, the phone rang off the hook! When Shaunti and Jeff come back on our broadcast, I’m buying some more phones. For Men Only is fresh and relevant –good stuff for every marriage. Read it!”   
—Dennis Rainey, President, FamilyLife Today

“If you’ve ever asked, ‘Why does she do, think, or say that?’ then you’ve got to read this book.  Shaunti and Jeff not only answer this question, they eliminate the confusion that has kept far too many men from bridging the gender gap.”
—Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, bestselling authors of Love Talk

“Most of my work helping passive Christian men become more like Jesus involves how best to relate to women.  I’m going to make sure to keep a case of the Feldhahn’s excellent book handy at all times.”
—Paul Coughlin, author, No More Christian Nice Guy  

“Men, we’re supposed to love our wives and live with them in an understanding way.  That’s the clear assignment God gives each of us in the Scriptures.  So buy this book, read it a couple of times, underline a few key ideas, and then keep it where you can review it regularly.  It will help you be the husband God wants you to be.”
—Bob Lepine, cohost, FamilyLife Today
 
Praise for For Men Only and For Women Only
 “Whenever Shaunti Feldhahn appears as a guest on the Focus on the Family radio program, we know that listener response will be enthusiastic. She has a way of connecting with the audience that is unique and compelling. We’re thankful for the unique perspective she provides not only to the Christian community, but to the culture at large.”
—Jim Daly, President, Focus on the Family

“These are the books I pass out to people as the best on the subject. Shaunti Feldhahn has the rare ability to do impeccable research and then make her findings incredibly practical. There is something to learn on every page.”
—Jim Burns, PhD., President, HomeWord, author of Creating an Intimate Marriage  

“Whatever Shaunti Feldhahn researches, read. Actually, do more than read…study!  Shaunti’s ability to ask the right questions, find the right answers and communicate the results clearly and practically sets her apart as a gifted researcher. Her content guides and changes lives.”
—Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D., best-selling author, Love and Respect

“Shaunti Feldhahn has a unique gift for helping men understand women, and women, men. Her books, For Women Only and For Men Only, are the best I know at providing rich and practical gender understanding that can be used immediately. I highly recommend both all the time!”
—Robert Lewis, author of Raising a Modern-Day Knight; founder, Men's Fraternity

About Shaunti Feldhahn

Social researcher and international speaker Shaunti Feldhahn is the author of many groundbreaking books, including For Women Only, For Men Only, The Male Factor, The Good News About Marriage, The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages and The Kindness Challenge. In total, Shuanti's books have sold more than two million copies in twenty-four languages.

Shaunti earned her master’s degree at Harvard University and worked on Wall Street and Capitol Hill before developing an innovative research method to deliver insights about personal and work relationships that most people miss. Shaunti’s findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The New York Times and Patheos, Cosmo and iMom.

Shaunti’s husband Jeff is the founder of World2One, a disruptive pro-privacy marketing technology. The Feldhahns live in Atlanta with their teenage daughter and son, and two cats who think they are dogs.

About Jeff Feldhahn

Jeff Feldhahn is the cofounder and CEO of tech company World2one. Jeff holds a graduate degree from Harvard University and is an attorney specializing in corporate and nonprofit law.  An active leader in his Atlanta-area church, Jeff and his wife, Shaunti, are parents of two children.

Product Details

208 pages | Published by Multnomah

On Sale Date: Mar 19, 2013

Trim Size: 5 x 7

Carton Quantity: 24

Sneak Peek

Finally—You Can Understand Her!

Click here to download chapter one of For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition.

Revised and Updated Edition! Women: Complicated and impossible to understand? Do you love and want to please the woman in your life, but just can’t seem to figure her out? That was before For Men Only. Now at your fingertips is the tool that will unlock the secret to her mysterious ways. Through hundreds of interviews and the results of a scientific national survey of women, this book demonstrates that women are actually not random and that they really can be systematized and “mapped.” In fact, much to men’s delight, this book shows that women are actually quite easy to understand and please—as long as you know what it is they need. This simple map will guide you to loving your wife or girlfriend in the way she needs to be loved.

Click here to download chapter one of For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition.

By David Smart

I havenâ??t written a book review in a while because, well basically, I havenâ??t had a whole lot of time to. So now that I have some time, I figured Iâ??d give it a go again. This book, For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women, was written by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn. This book is the reader requested followup to For Women Only: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men that the couple had written a few...

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By Jeremy Keegan

I actually read this with a group of guys, and it was one of the better texts I've come across regarding marriage. I think it helps that the book was written by a husband AND wife. Both perspectives are needed to understand the unique differences between male and female and how we can work through those to have a better marriage. I think this was also a great modern view of men and women - some of the other books out there that are still...

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By Aaron McBride

I would love to rank this book, but I never received my digital copy of the book. I think I prefer to get the books in physical form for reviewing.

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By Brett Levy

Occasionally you read a book that falls in the "I need to tell ever person I know about this" category and "For Men Only" by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn is definitely that.  I've been married for almost 15 years and during that time I've had countless conversations with my wife about the differences we have in how we see marriage.  As I read this book, I was reminded of several things she has said, but this book added clarity to the...

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By Kevin Halloran

If you are a man and have ever thought to yourself, â??"Women are impossible to understand!â? this book is for you.A follow-up to the bestselling version for women, For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women analyzes research done by husband and wife duo Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn seeking to help men understand the inner lives of women.The book addresses a number of issues mainly falling into...

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