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Tender Warrior

Every Man's Purpose, Every Woman's Dream, Every Child's Hope

Stu Weber

About Tender Warrior

A revised and updated edition of Stu Weber’s bestseller that paints a dramatic and compelling picture of balanced manhood according to God’s vision.

The definition of manhood itself is obscured by a culture in moral free fall. But this book cuts through the fog and defines a powerful blueprint for being the man—the Tender Warrior—that God desires for you and your family. Written in a warm, personal style, Weber presents the characteristics of tender warriors—including learning to speak the language of women, watching out for what lies ahead, and keeping commitments—in an upfront, straightforward style that challenges readers to realize God’s plan for men.

Stu Weber’s now classic teaching on a man’s vigilance, staying power, and consideration for the women in his life will move you to pursue the man you were created to be.

Praise

Praise for Tender Warrior

Tender Warrior provides hope for men by challenging their assumptions and shaping their convictions. Read it. Devour it. Then live it. This is the time for real men to emerge.”
—Dennis Rainey, executive director, FamilyLife

“In a day when our culture is at once confused and concerned over gender identity, men everywhere would to do well to recalibrate their personal compasses by the biblical benchmarks found in Tender Warrior . I highly recommend this book!”
—Dr. Bruce Wilkinson , New York Times bestselling author

About Stu Weber

Stu Weber was senior pastor of Good Shepherd Community Church near Gresham, Oregon for more than three decades. He is a much-in-demand international speaker and the author of the popular Four Pillars of a Man’s Heart, All the King’s Men, and Along the Road to Manhood. He and his wife, Linda, have three children, Kent, Blake, and Ryan.

Product Details

288 pages | Published by Multnomah

On Sale Date: Apr 15, 2006

Trim Size: 6 x 9

Carton Quantity: 24

Sneak Peek

Young men aspire to it. Women admire it. Yet the definition of manhood itself is obscured by a culture in moral free fall. This book cuts through the fog and defines a powerful blueprint for being the man—the Tender Warrior—that God desires for you and your family.

Written in a warm, personal style, Weber presents the characteristics of tender warriors—including learning to speak the language of women, watching out for what lies ahead, and keeping commitments—in an upfront, straightforward style that challenges readers to realize God’s plan for men.

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By Denise Mattox

I requested Tender Warrior by Stu Webber for my husband to read and give me his feedback. This was pretty much forever ago, as life got busy and he never got a chance to read it. It got shelved and (to be completely honest) forgotten about. Until I ran into the Blogging for Books twitter feed and was reminded I had the book lying around. Time to drag it out and read it myself!â??"Every manâ??s purpose. Every womanâ??s dream. Every childâ??s...

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By Chris Aiken

Tender Warrior is another great read by Stu Weber. (OK, transparency hereâ?¦I really like Stu Weber). This book, like many of his works speaks of the warrior ethosâ?¦the man codeâ?¦the need for men to take their rightful and created roles seriously as the leaders of their homes, communities, and churches. Weber shares wisdom hereâ?¦using imagery and stories that connect with men. For too long, the culture has defined â??"churchâ? or...

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By Doug Hibbard

Here is the hinge of Stu Weberâ??s book: it is not only possible but appropriate that Christian men be both compassionate and strong. The possibility of doing so is based in the power of God. The appropriateness is found in following the example of Christ, because we see both attitudes in fullness in Him. Weberâ??s work is peppered with anecdotes and explanations, and has aged fairly well since I read it in the mid-90s. A few of the life...

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By Joshua Lake

"He is an initiator and she is a responder. That's masculinity and femininity in the proverbial nutshell" (128). I start with that, because so many readers evaluate books solely upon whether the author's view of gender roles agrees with theirs. If you believe in firm roles for men and women, husbands and wives, you will appreciate this book's message. Complementarianism is written on every page. Stu Weber wrote this book to paint a...

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By Scott Volltrauer

In 1990 Jungian psychologist Robert Moore and co-author Douglas Gillette wrote King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine. Moore and Gillette referred to four blueprints, in Stu Weber's Tender Warrior: Every Man's Purpose, Every Woman's Dream, Every Child's Hope he calls them fingerprints. All the authors argue that in order to become a complete man, a man must be intentional in his efforts to...

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